Wise Up

Irreverent Enlightenment from a Mother Who's Been Through It

English language

Published July 18, 2022 by Basic Books.

ISBN:
9781541620476

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4 stars (1 review)

From becoming an iconic MTV VJ to starring in Dumb and Dumber to being diagnosed with a life-threatening disease, Karen Duffy has been through a lot. but it was only when she became a mother that she realized she had some pretty solid life lessons to pass down. In Wise Up, she shares insights that have helped her embrace all her whirlwind life has thrown her way.

Duffy offers essential advice on building a friend group that is weasel free, finding love in your life, and determining how much to tip the waiter. (As with everything - be generous!) While raising her son Jack, she drew on reserves of wisdom from the strangest of places, from the Monkey Busters of Japan, to ancient philosophers, to retired Bulgarian dancing bears.

There are times in life when we should turn to the wisdom of great thinkers. And there are times when …

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Philosophy on Life as a parent and human

4 stars

I watched Karen Duffy work as a MTV VJ when I was younger. I recently became aware of this book somehow, and I am really glad I did.

Each chapter is a letter to her son. Likely written over years, each takes on one or two themes and runs with it for several pages. Jostled with her past, her health state, and her philosophy, this is a fantastic read.

Has some laugh out loud moments, such as cleaning her son's sports clothes, to sitting behind Bruce Springsteen at church and he recognizing her, to some of the simply outlandish stories she included, such as Grandma's in Japan chasing wild monkeys.

She obviously has spent a lot of time on Stoicism. She brings it up in many places, and there are quotes from the ancient stoics. She knows her stuff and I'm impressed. Thus this book is really mostly about philosophy …