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Rev. Dr. Sir Wayne Murillo III

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An anti-fascist, an anti-racist, and an egalitarian raccoon in a suit who reads books and writes about them.

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The mothers (2016) 5 stars

"A dazzling debut novel from an exciting new voice, The Mothers is a surprising story …

Review of 'The mothers' on 'Goodreads'

5 stars

I found The Mothers after watching a Barnes and Noble Tik Tok suggesting it in a collection of books to use while processing and challenging the Dobbs decision and the fall of Roe.

Thus, when I read it, I expected a narrative that would provided an unveiled, prochoice moral. The Mothers is so much more complex than that.

Bennett's debut novel is packed with dense, textured, realistic characters that leap off the page. A complex love triangle between Nadia Turner, Luke Sheppard, and Aubrey Evans weaves in and out of a tale that does include abortion, but also features black contemporary life, religion, class, and so much more.

The Mothers is worth your time.

Review of 'We Had a Little Real Estate Problem' on 'Goodreads'

3 stars

If you'd like to know more about indigenous American comedy, Kliph Nesteroff chronicles some under-sung greats in We Had a Little Real-Estate Problem. The book is meandering and exclusively expository without a real thesis over content. Useful distraction for our current apocalypse.

Review of 'Vagabonds' on 'Goodreads'

No rating

I have read many of the sprawling, science fiction, space operas that include Mars as a setting. I am often thrilled by the hardscrabble life and pragmatic philosophy that must be practiced on the red planet. However, for me, Vagabonds by Hao Jingfang sort of fell apart for me. I listened to the English translation from Chinese and perhaps objected to the lessons implied by the plot.

After a civil war between Mars and Earth, the two powers are attempting to find peace. Mars sends a group of students including Luoying, a dancer, to Earth to build relations between the planets.

Jingfang seems to wax poetic about the youth of Earth who seem to be trust-fund gig-workers that work to fund a lifestyle against the Martians who join a working group and help to build a community.

Jingfang's glorification of capitalism against a communist, semi-authoritarian, syndicalism just left this anarchistic, …

This is how it always is (2017) 5 stars

"This is how a family keeps a secret...and how that secret ends up keeping them. …

Review of 'This is how it always is' on 'Goodreads'

5 stars

ThisisHowitAlwaysIs by @Laurie_Frankel is a beautifully written novel covering #parenting, #trans-children, #family, and #myth. The beats of the story were tight and the tension kept me hanging on every moment. As a parent, I have wondered about how I would parent a trans-kid and Frankel's novel feels like a parental speculative fiction that lets the reader experience some of the inevitable obstacles that a family of a trans-child must overcome. I don't want to give a moment of it away.

This is How it Always Is by Frankel is beautiful and worth your time.

Detransition, Baby (Hardcover, 2021, One World) 4 stars

A whipsmart debut about three women--transgender and cisgender--whose lives collide after an unexpected pregnancy forces …

Review of 'Detransition, Baby' on 'Goodreads'

5 stars

Detransition, Baby by Torrey Peters (@torreypeters) begins with a title that could be interpreted a couple of ways, something that doesn't change as the novel continues. After starting the book, someone empathetic to the rights of transgender people might have misgivings if the title is declarative. However, the title is the beginning of a chronological list of events in the life of James/Amy/Ames.

The novel proposes a situation where a ciswoman, and two transwomen, try to start a family while drama ensues. The story is compelling from the first minute to the last and it contains glorious dialectics between the characters that lead to greater truths about transpeople, motherhood, womanhood, and families that meld smoothly into the winding plot.

Detransition, Baby is worth your time. Go read it.

No-drama discipline (2014) No rating

"[Offers] parents of children aged 2-13 a ... roadmap to ... discipline, highlighting the fascinating …

Review of 'No-drama discipline' on 'Goodreads'

No rating

I started parenthood around the moment that the pandemic started. The lockdown and my maleness meant that I didn't really get a lot of in-person advice about parenting. I relied on books to be a father and equal parent to my child. One of my favorite books is The Whole Brain Child by Dr. Daniel Segal (@DrDanSiegel) and Dr. Tina Payne Bryson (@tinabryson). They wrote another book that I just finished: No Drama Discipline.

My kiddo is starting to gather her own will. I have been encountering all of the tantrums, demands, and hitting that you might expect. At first, I had no idea what to do. Then, No Drama Discipline and #GentleParenting Tik Tok helped me to develop a philosophy that guides my parenting actions to teach my child emotional regulation instead ugly pavlovian behavioral approaches.

I can't recommend No Drama Discipline enough for anyone that interacts with children, …